Went home to visit my family having been away at work to find a man in my house never minded till this guy followed me to the kitchen questioning my visit claiming my wife was his new lover on confrontation she denied the guy followed into the bedroom where there was a commotion coz there was company of my sisters and other strangers I overheard her tell the guy that she'll deny it all and pretend their affair wasn't true
This dream could reflect feelings of insecurity or doubt in your relationship with your significant other. The man in your house symbolizes a potential threat or obstacle in your path. The fact that the man claims your wife is his new lover could represent feelings of jealousy or inadequacy.
The confrontation in the kitchen and the commotion in the bedroom may indicate that you feel that there are secrets being kept from you, or that your partner may be hiding something from you. The fact that your partner denies the affair and pretends it isn't true can indicate a fear of facing the truth and accepting the reality of the situation.
Overall, this dream may be a reflection of your own insecurities and fears in your relationship. If you are having doubts or concerns, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and concerns.